My first baby is turning 13 in a few short weeks.
How can this be? It seems like just yesterday I was a 31 year old {ancient, I know!}
first time mother. To be honest with you, when I got married at 24 I
didn't even know if I ever wanted children - for reals! I was all 'miss career woman', workin'
9-5 and enjoying the double-income-no-kids lifestyle. Well, I hit the big 3-0
and the biological clock- more like the biological alarm - went off! I was
preggers shortly thereafter.
After 15 hours of labor, a beautiful bald baby girl was born
and our lives were changed forever......
In many ways it seems like her birth happened just yesterday
and in so many ways it feels like exactly 13 years ago....
ahhhh, life!
My big girl visited my parents last week for 5 days which gave me
the opportunity to do a thorough cleaning and a little re-decorating, giving
her a room befitting the teenager she will soon be.
I soon discovered the reason I had been putting off this task - nevermind
the piles of clothes, mementos, stuffed animals, soccer socks, and other various collections.....
going through her room meant facing the fact that she is growing up......gulp.
Oh sure, I have done 'the big clean out' before, but this time we were transitioning -
I put away the Brownie vest, Girl Scout sash, her first soccer shin guards, photos
from pee wee soccer teams, lacrosse teams, swimming ribbons won long ago, Webkinz,
Junie B. Jones books and rock collections......the things that represent
the childhood she is leaving behind...
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Some beautiful 'before' shots! |
I am proud to say that I know my children well. Cleaning out my
first baby's room shined a bright light on all that I love and know about her....
* She loves to read, anything and everything, from the classics, Harry Potter,
the Lightening Thief, biographies, joke books and teen fiction....
* She is a collector, of soccer socks, rocks, books, soccer tournament
t-shirts, sweatshirts, friends and lip balm among other things!
* She loves inspiring words - the reason I chose so many to decorate her walls!
* She loves animals - equally the stuffed and real live varieties!
* She loves EVERYTHING about soccer - playing it and collecting
signed stinky shoes from her favorite players, books about her heros
{Mia Hamm} and jersey's from favorite teams.
* My daughter is resilient - in her room are yearbooks from three
elementary schools, a product of our "bloom where you're planted"
lifestyle......seeing them put a lump in this mommy's throat because
the challenges those moves brought is still so fresh. My first born
has handled every move with optimism and uses humor to deflate
any feelings of nerves or uneasiness.
Her bedroom is big and has chair-rail that was painted white. I chose to paint the chair-rail
the same color I had the walls painted (Benjamin Moore's "A Touch of Gray"). The color
is actually a very subtle lavender with a "touch of gray". Big girl chose lime green
as her accent color.
She also has a very big walk in closet that I organized - the bookshelves pictured above
are actually in her closet - the other side (not pictured) fit all her clothes. She is lucky.
I have collected vintage E's forever and have used them in various ways in her
previous rooms - I chose to mix them with Etsy prints on the walls. The E over
her bed is from Pottery Barn and the frame is a vintage one that I just spray painted.
I chose quotes to inspire a 13 year old like - "The glass is half full",
and "you are beautiful both inside and out".....
Ikea helped with lots of stuff......like the hanging light fixture, desk chair,
and bedding! Thanks Ikea - for cheap home stuff and meatballs!
Her bed is a vintage iron bed that I love and she strongly dislikes. She has her eye
on something more modern but for now, she is stuck with the one
good old mom loves.....for now.
The pillow on her bed says it all..... this special girl of mine
who is a student, a goof-ball, a giver of extraordinary hugs, a super
good goal keeper, a friend to many, a role model for her little sister,
a daughter to me and her dad......
is well on her way to achieve her BIG dreams!
I am proud to be her momma.....
** Forever*Cottage Tag Sale coming Monday!!!!